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🎭 The Masks We Wear
Unpacking the emotional armor we use to protect ourselves
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In this edition, we’re exploring the invisible masks we wear every day. Whether it’s putting on a brave face at work, acting like everything is fine when we’re struggling, or hiding parts of ourselves to fit in, we all use emotional armor to navigate the world. But what happens when these masks become too heavy to carry? Let’s talk about how we can let go of the need to hide and embrace who we truly are.
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THE MASKS WE WEAR
Why We Hide and How to Show Up Authentically
From an early age, we learn to adapt. We smile when we don’t feel like it, we say we’re okay when we’re not, and we shift our personalities depending on who we’re around. These masks help us feel safe, accepted, and in control. But over time, they can also disconnect us from ourselves. When we spend too much time pretending, we risk forgetting who we are underneath.
One common mask is the “I’ve Got It All Together” act. Many of us feel pressure to appear strong and capable, even when we’re struggling inside. We avoid showing vulnerability because we fear judgment or rejection. But the truth is, vulnerability is not weakness—it’s the foundation of true connection. The people who truly care about you will appreciate your honesty, not your perfection.
Another mask is the “People-Pleaser.” We say yes when we mean no, we avoid conflict at all costs, and we put others’ needs before our own. This often comes from a deep desire to be liked or not disappoint others. But constantly suppressing your true feelings for the sake of others leads to burnout and resentment. Setting boundaries and honoring your own needs is a powerful way to step out from behind this mask.
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So how do we start removing these masks? The first step is self-awareness. Notice when you’re putting on an act and ask yourself why. Are you afraid of being judged? Are you trying to meet someone else’s expectations? Acknowledging these patterns is the first step to breaking free from them.
Next, practice small moments of authenticity. Speak honestly about how you feel, even if it’s uncomfortable. Allow yourself to be seen, flaws and all. Start with people you trust, and over time, showing up as your true self will feel more natural.
At the end of the day, the masks we wear may protect us, but they also keep us from forming real connections. True belonging comes not from being who others expect us to be, but from embracing who we truly are. And that kind of freedom is worth more than any disguise.
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